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Soul Tie, Attachment and Trauma Bond all at the same time.
It's an incredibly complex and often painful experience to find yourself in a relationship where a soul tie, a trauma bond, and a deep...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Aug 243 min read
How Do You Perceive Your World?
A proper perspective acts as our internal compass, guiding our thoughts, feelings, and actions. It's not about ignoring reality but about...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Aug 232 min read


Add to Your Faith Part 3 - Patience
The following is a commentary on the fruit of patience developed by the Holy Spirit in the believer. As always, I want to stress the...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Jul 172 min read


Add to Your Faith Part 2 - Self Control
Among the virtues Peter lists in 2 Peter Chapter 1, "self-control" stands as a crucial element in the believer's spiritual development....
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Jul 93 min read


Add to Your Faith
It's been a while since I have posted on the blog! Things have gotten busy and lot's going on, but I have been missing writing so I am...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Jul 74 min read
No More Lying, Hiding and Covering Up-Part 2
This post offers insight into the deeply ingrained human tendency towards self-preservation and the journey toward genuine freedom....
Pastor Bill Hoffman
May 273 min read
Is it Good to be Afflicted?
Psalm 119:71, "It is good for me that I have been afflicted; that I might learn thy statutes," offers a profound insight into the...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
May 252 min read
Peace that Passes Understanding
The Apostle Paul, in his letter to the Philippians, offers a profound promise: "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding,...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
May 212 min read
Perspectives on Forgiveness
Concepts of resentment and forgiveness. Harboring resentment due to a lack of forgiveness implies a belief in one's own superior judgment...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
May 172 min read
Childlike Faith and Trauma
Having childlike faith, as encouraged in the Bible (Matthew 18:3-4), involves approaching God with humility, trust, and a sense of...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
May 162 min read


On the Inner Child
I recently started working with a young lady in her mid 20s and have only had about three sessions thus far. But the work that we’ve been...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
May 153 min read
Satan Nipping at Your Heels
It feels like there's always something nipping at my heels, a persistent whisper of doubt or a sudden surge of anxiety that keeps me...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
May 122 min read


TAKING EVERY THOUGHT CAPTIVE
The Christian discipline of "taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ," rooted in 2 Corinthians 10:5, is a transformative...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
May 42 min read


You Never Stop Learning - Hopefully
A Universe of Infinity Sayings that I learned a long time ago like, "the more I know about God the less I know about God", really take on...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Apr 104 min read


Did God really say?
The phrase "Did God really say?" is often associated with questioning the authority and truthfulness of religious texts, particularly the...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Apr 42 min read


CPTSD - There is Hope
CPTSD - There is Hope "The rain hammered against the attic window, a relentless rhythm mirroring the chaos inside Clara. She curled...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Mar 314 min read


Weeping Mode
The “weeping mode” is a different way of being in the world. It’s different than the fixing, explaining, or controlling mode. We’re...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Jun 25, 20242 min read


Is everything OK?
Did you ever notice that we always want everything to be OK all the time? It’s literally impossible to be OK all the time it’s a land...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Jun 18, 20242 min read


The Empty Cup
The Empty Cup Most of us are familiar with the phrase or some version of it, “ it depends on how you look at things… either your cup is...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Jun 13, 20243 min read


No More Hiding
No more hiding, lying and covering up! This is a lesson I learned personally years ago. Insecurity, self protection, self promotion, ego,...
Pastor Bill Hoffman
Jun 12, 20241 min read
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